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Tit for tat

Claraviolet

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Do you believe in this?
I do. I always try to make sure others experience the same stuff, at some point. I have a very good memory and I could easily remember most of the things.

Is it the same for you guys as well? Do you make sure to enlighten others, by giving them back, whatever they had done to you?
Let me know your experiences here, everyone!
 
I like to Pay it forward. People think to do that it has to be extravagant but it's just doing what you can, being kind, being a human being.
 
I'm not in a position to deal karma, so I let the Lord deal with it, and of course, the "law of the universe", which is karma.
 
It is a bad idea to just roll over and let others abuse you. If you are weak, you will be crushed. You should give back evil in return just as you give back kindness. However you must learn to moderate yourself elwjen going for revenge.

Also, who am I to judge a person who is an avenger? I have not experienced his/her pain. It is petty to say that revenge is pointless. I would just say "I hope you are able to move on after revenge".
 
It is a bad idea to just roll over and let others abuse you. If you are weak, you will be crushed. You should give back evil in return just as you give back kindness. However you must learn to moderate yourself elwjen going for revenge.

Also, who am I to judge a person who is an avenger? I have not experienced his/her pain. It is petty to say that revenge is pointless. I would just say "I hope you are able to move on after revenge".
Revenge isn't something I look forward too. To be honest, if the opposite party is close to me, then it hurts me a lot. Still, they need to understand the limitations too.
One can only take so much and it's our life. We shouldn't be taking their verbal attacks when we don't have to. So, it's better to make them understand how bad it could get and then you can let it go. Well, sometimes people change after experiencing it and sometimes they don't.
 
I think it better to leave it to karma. If you do believe in that and greater powers like God.
 
I think it better to leave it to karma. If you do believe in that and greater powers like God.
 
Whenever people do something for me, weather good or bad. I tried to always pay back with good behavior, I never can tell what might happens later in future. People change a lot, so maintaining good relationship with individual is the best.
 
I used to think in that manner, spent a lot many nights ruining my sleep over how I could pay them back to those who hurt me. Did hurt some of them back too and it did feel good. Now I have started believing in karma, if someone hurts me for no reason will be paid back in kind somehow, I don't have to be one always to do that. So I just ignore and avoid such people now, black them out from my life.
 

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