Mistakes During a Breakup

[Jayson]

For men, don't cry or whine cause it makes you look weak to the woman - even if the woman has sympathy for it. Well, her instinct of seeing you weak overpowers the other thing - and she will certainly not consider taking you back - and even if she had no plan of it anyway, there's simply the humiliation.

 

[Sweerie_banana]

I think it is normal and very human to cry. I cried to when I was dumped yesterday. He never shed a tear. I thought he never loved me and it was so easy for him to leave me. But is okay. Everyone has their opinions. I think if I saw him cry, I wouldn't consider him weak.

 

[Jayson]

I think it is normal and very human to cry. I cried to when I was dumped yesterday. He never shed a tear. I thought he never loved me and it was so easy for him to leave me. But is okay. Everyone has their opinions. I think if I saw him cry, I wouldn't consider him weak.

You might if you were angry enough to break up with him!

 

[Sweerie_banana]

I do cry a lot. We linked up yesterday when he came over to get some of his tools he had left in my house. I gave it all to him. It was so sentiment and I did cry. He was sweet at some point. I realized I still love him.

I miss us. I miss us fighting for each other. He said he would be back. I hope he will come back and stay. He came be so nice sometimes and I know there is room for us to work things out. It's just hard living with the fact that I messed things up between us.

I hope I mattered enough to him.

 

[Alexandoy]

As a man, I have to admit that there were times that I cried. But I did that in private. I wouldn't have the face to cry in front of people for a break up. I always wear a facade that I am strong and I have confidence that I can easily recover even if those are lies. However, looking back makes me realize that I get stronger as break ups come and go.