Marriage and Kids?

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I really hate being attached or bound to anything. I hate romantic relationships let alone marriage and kids. In fact, having kids for me personally is filled with responsibilities that I’m not fully and wholly ready for. At least, that’s how I myself feel about it. How about you?
 
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I spend day and night running after my 74 year old mother who has dementia, so that's essentially like having a perpetual child around, since at times she acts like a little child or a spoiled teenager (not her fault, that's just a part of the disease), so I'm good with just the one right now...don't have time for a relationship at all, let alone marriage, though I do eventually want that to be a thing...somehow...
 
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I am married and have a kid. I wouldn't have minded even if I had remained single. But, I guess we need a partner in later stage of our life.
 
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I had a child out-of-wedlock in January, but now am marrying. Well, I just got married a few days ago.
 
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I spend day and night running after my 74 year old mother who has dementia, so that's essentially like having a perpetual child around, since at times she acts like a little child or a spoiled teenager (not her fault, that's just a part of the disease), so I'm good with just the one right now...don't have time for a relationship at all, let alone marriage, though I do eventually want that to be a thing...somehow...
You have a heart of gold, you seem to be a very nice guy and i really respect what you do for your mum as that can't be easy... When the time is right you will find someone right :-)
 
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You have a heart of gold, you seem to be a very nice guy and i really respect what you do for your mum as that can't be easy... When the time is right you will find someone right :-)
It's not an easy thing looking after her, but it's the right thing to do. She's my mum and she raised me, it's only right that I return the favour now that she's the one in need. As for finding someone, I certainly hope so, down the line. I can't factor in time for someone else just now, but when that's a possibility, it would be nice to have that companionship.
 
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I don't have any children and I'm not in a relationship. Over time, this could change as this is something that is on my bucket list. When the time is right, I'll find my true love and I and my partner, can then consider this later down the line.
 
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I had a child out-of-wedlock in January, but now am marrying. Well, I just got married a few days ago.

Congratulations! BIG events of life!
 
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I've been married for over 10 years at this point and have a child. There are good days and bad, but at the end of all the days, it's worth it in my opinion. I especially love having a child. He brings me so much happiness and joy.
 
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